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How to Select a Military Divorce Lawyer



If you or your spouse is in the military, you face some unique legal issues if you decide to get a divorce. For example, your divorce will need to comply with military rules and regulations. Also, serving divorce papers on an active-duty spouse can be challenging. And you'll also need to figure out whether one former spouse is entitled to part of the military pension. A military divorce lawyer can help guide you through these particular challenges.

When considering a divorce, you'll want to work with an attorney who is familiar with the particular complexities of military divorces. But selecting an attorney can be a daunting task. You want to hire someone who has experience handling cases similar to yours, but you also want a lawyer with whom you feel comfortable. You're entrusting this person to guide you through a serious and complex legal dispute.

If you have military friends or family, you may have already have the names of military divorce lawyers. But if you don't already know of attorneys who handle military divorces, then Attorneys.com can help you find a lawyer. Our service will connect you with a military divorce lawyer in your area.

To start the process, call us at 1-877-913-7222 or complete the form on our site. We'll ask some basic questions about your divorce, then supply you with the name and contact information of an attorney in your area. This lawyer will contact you within two business days, or you can contact the lawyer at your convenience.

Make an Appointment

Once you've connected with the attorney, you'll want to schedule an appointment for a brief consultation, either over the phone or in person. This initial consultation gives you the opportunity to get to know the attorney, familiarize him or her with your case, get a cost estimate, and ask questions about how your case would be handled. The consultation may be free, or the attorney may charge a small fee.

Before this first meeting, take some time to outline the issues related to your divorce. For example, where does the military spouse live, where does the non-military spouse live and where does the military member claim legal residence? What kinds of assets do you own? How many children, if any, do you have, and do you and your spouse agree on child custody arrangements?

You'll also want to make a list of questions you'd like a divorce lawyer to answer. These are questions that will help you decide whether you feel comfortable having the attorney work on your case. Sample questions might include:

  • How much experience do you have handling military divorces?
  • Have you handled other cases similar to mine?
  • Based on my description of the case, what are some realistic possible outcomes?
  • What is your philosophy or style when handling divorce cases?
  • What is your hourly rate? Who else in your office would be working on my case, and how much do they charge?
  • What is the total estimated cost to handle my divorce, including attorneys' fees, plus other costs and expenses?

Selecting a Military Divorce Lawyer

After you've had a chance to become acquainted with the lawyer and get your questions answered, you'll need to decide whether to hire that attorney. Consider how he or she answered your questions, and whether you'd feel comfortable entrusting your divorce to this lawyer. Can you afford the legal fees? If you agree with the lawyer's approach and feel as if you can trust the attorney, then you've found a good match!