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How to Hire a Child Custody Lawyer

It's understandable if the process of hiring a child custody lawyer leaves you feeling a bit lost. After all, most of us rarely-if ever-need to hire a lawyer. You may not even know where to begin. This article will walk you through the process of hiring a lawyer for your custody issues.

Hiring a lawyer requires a bit more thought and research than hiring a handyman or dentist. Not only are you looking for someone who has the skills and experience to handle your child custody case, but you're also looking for someone whose judgment you can trust. After all, the law is not always black and white. There will be times during your the custody process when you'll have to rely on your custody lawyer's experience and advice to guide you.

Personal recommendations can be invaluable when selecting a lawyer. Ask your family members, friends, and co-workers whether they've previously faced a custody issue and if they'd recommend their child custody lawyers. If someone has had a good first-hand experience with a child custody attorney, you should certainly consider talking to that lawyer.

If you don't know anyone who can recommend a local child-custody attorney, then you've come to the right place. offers a service to connect you with child custody lawyers in your area. To start the process, simply fill out the form on this site or call us at 1-877-913-7222. We'll ask you a few basic questions, then we'll connect you with one or more child custody lawyers in your area. The lawyers will contact you within two business days, or you can contact the lawyers at your convenience.

Screening Child Custody Lawyers

Before selecting a child custody lawyer, you should schedule an initial consultation with each attorney you're considering. An initial consultation is a brief meeting-either in person or over the phone-meant to familiarize the attorney with your legal issue and allow you to get to know the attorney. Some attorneys do charge for initial consultations, while others offer them free of charge.

In preparation for each appointment, take some time to make a few notes you can refer to during the meeting. You'll want to briefly outline your child custody issue as well as any relevant background related to the dispute. You'll also want to make a list of questions that will enable you to learn more about the lawyer and his or her background. Among the topics to consider discussing:

  • The attorney's education and professional experience
  • The attorney's proposed strategy for handling your child custody case
  • How the attorney charges for his or her time, and how much he or she estimates the entire case will cost

Take notes during the meeting, particularly if you're talking to several lawyers. These notes will come in handy as you try to pick the right child custody lawyer for your case.

It's also important to remember that anything you discuss during your initial consultation will be kept confidential-even if you ultimately end up hiring a different child custody attorney.

Selecting a Child Custody Attorney

Once you've finished meeting with attorneys who can potentially handle your case, it's time to decide which attorney to hire. To make things easy, eliminate any lawyers you definitely do not what to hire. These might include lawyers who don't have the necessary experience, who are too expensive, or who simply didn't make you feel comfortable.

Then consider the remaining attorneys. Is there one who stands out from the rest? Remember that you want an attorney with the appropriate skills, but also someone who inspires trust. You'll be relying on this attorney to guide you through a difficult and emotional process, and you want someone whose judgment you can trust. Once you've found that attorney, you're ready to move ahead with your child custody case.